Having good, quality friends, is a wonderful treasure in life. In fact, studies report that those who have one or more quality friendships, tend to be happier and healthier in life, than those who don’t. Friends can be there to share the good times and lend an ear and shoulder in the tough times. To go through this journey alone, can get quite lonesome and many adults admit to being lonely more often than they’d like.
That being said, it is important to have positive and caring friends, as opposed to negative and rude friends. Unhealthy friendships will suck the life energy right out of you and bring you down in a hurry. If you are dealing with “toxic” friends, you may have to let them go and learn how to attract good friends.
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Birds of a feather flock together.” This means that those of like personality usually hang out with one another. This is very common in high school and colleges where there are “the athletes”, “the studious”, “the preppy”, “the emo crew”, “the partiers”, and so on. In the adult world you will find social groups with individuals who have the same interests, but many adults lose track of their old buddies from school and tend to struggle with finding new true friends. They wonder how to attract good friends, but lack the “know how”.
What do you think about yourself and others?
You can attract good friends without too much effort. The first thing you want to do is gauge how you feel about yourself and others. Monitor your thoughts and if you find yourself struggling with self-worth issues or negative thinking, take action to counter the negativity.
Use positive affirmations to raise your vibration
Begin reciting positive affirmations on a daily basis to increase your self-esteem and vibrational level. This is very important because your thoughts and feelings about yourself and others, are vibrations that you send out to the universe. If you send out negative vibrations, you will manifest negative experiences, but if your thoughts and feelings are positive, you will attract happy and loving people, according to the Law of Attraction.
Be the person that you would love to hang out with
Have you ever come into contact with a vibrant, loving, and super duper happy person? One that walked in confidence and emitted pure joy? Didn’t it make you want to get to know that person better? Perhaps hang out and share that kind of life?
If your answer is yes, let me inform you that YOU can be that person. You can use the Law of Attraction to your advantage anytime you want. Be vibrant. Be loving. Be super duper happy, even if you have to pretend at first. Soon it will become natural to you, and you will attract the same type of people. The universe will pick up on your vibes and another person who is emitting the same vibes, will suddenly show up in your life.
According to the Law of Attraction, like attracts like, so if you want to attract a friend who is loving, fun, energetic, etc., be sure to develop these qualities within yourself. Everything starts with you; when you change, things will change.
These simple steps will help you attract good friends. Your positive thoughts and higher vibrations will act as a magnet, and people of like mind will be attracted to you. Be grateful and feel the excitement now.